[---~*My Perfect Love*~---]

Saturday, May 07, 2005

{*msg from argo*}

i got this from my friend, argo. i find it pretty true and helpful in some ways as it tells you wat love really is???? how you noe whether it is real love or not.

First person is you, Second person is the one youlove most, Third person is the one who love youmost, And the fourth is the one you spend the restof your life with.In life, firstly you will meet with the one you lovemost, and learn how love feels. Because you knowhow love feels, so you can find the person wholoves you most. When you have experienced thefeeling of loving others and being loved, you willthen know what it is you need most. Then you willfind the person who is most suitable for you, to beable to spend the rest of your life with.Sadly, in real life, these three people are usuallynot the same person.The one you love most doesn't love you. The one,who love you most, is never the one you love most.And the one you spend your life with, is never theone you love most or the one who love you most.He is just the person who happens to be at theright place at the right time.Which person are you in other people's life?No person will purposely have a change of heart.At the point in time when he loves you, he reallyloves you. But when he doesn't love you anymore,he really doesn't love you anymore. When he lovesyou, he can't pretend that he doesn't. Same goes,when he loves you no more, there's no way he canpretend he loves you.When a person doesn't love you and wants toleave you. You must ask yourself if you still lovehim, If you also don't love him anymore, do notkeep him just to save your pride. If you still lovehim, you should wish him happiness, and hopethat he will be with the one he loves most, not stophim from it. If you stop him from finding truehappiness with the one he loves, it shows youalready don't love him, And if you don't love him,what rights do you have to blame him for a changeof heart?Love is not possessive, If you like the moon, youcan't just take it down and put it in your basin, Butthe moonlight still shines upon you. In other words,when you love a person, you can use anothermethod of possessing the person. Let him becomea permanent memory in you life. If you really love aperson, you must love him for what he is. Love himfor his good points, and the bad, You can't wish forhim to become like what you like him to be justbecause you love him. If he can't change tobecome what you like him to be, you don't lovehim anymore.When you really love a person, you cannot find areason why you love him, You only know that nomatter when and where, good mood or bad mood,you will wish to have this person be with you. Reallove is when two people can go through thetoughest problems without asking for promises orlisting criterias. In a relationship, you have toput ineffort and give in at times, not always be on thereceiving end. Being away from each other is atype of test, If the relationship isn't strong, thenyou can only admit defeat. Real love will neverbecome hate.When two people are in love, They love to askeach other to swear, to make promises. Why dothey ask each other to swear and promise?Because they don't trust each other, they don'ttrust their lover. These swear and promises areuseless; Till the sky falls, till the ocean dry, mylove for you will never change! We all know that thesky will never fall; the ocean will never dry, Even ifit does happen, are we still alive by then?Be careful when making promises; don't makepromises that you cannot keep. Swear by thingsthat can never happen, because it can neverhappen, so no harm just saying it casually.Remember, swearing by things that can neverhappen are the most touching!! In a relationship,what you say is one thing, but what you do isanother; The one saying, doesn't believe; the onelistening, also doesn't believe.

*Kissed My Love* @ | 11:22 AM