yesterday was my "BiG DaY" which is my 19th birthday. i heard from my mom that my cousin's bf's family came to the celebration which is a good sign. she is getting married soon i think. haha. happy for her to find the one. but the weird part is my relatives did not take pics with my cousin. i am like unable to go as my bro sae why go there when you are not celebrating your birthday there. went out with my friend in the afternoon and met up with my sec sch friends at night. quite busy for the whole day. haha. you want to know more of what i really did. you can ask me. haha. do not want to disclose it in the blog as i am afraid that lecturers may read it. haha. always bumping to the wrong guys and i so happened to buy a magazine how not to bump to the wrong type of guys and temporarily relationship. there are 5 type of problem match. actually it is about giving more than taking. relationship is all abt giving and cooperation from each other. trust is the most important and above all the qualities that you hope for in a guy. anyway, i am starting my job tmr. haiz. hope to have a good time there. 5 months. it will pass like a blink of an eye. Problem match #1 : the person start to criticise almost everything about you. he trying t0 be strong and start to dispise your weakness and magnify it to be such a big thing. he will get sick of you and find another ger as he fears he could be adequate. Problem match #2 : one of them start to be a control freak or more dominant than the other party. Problem match #3 : hoping to change the other party in terms of asking him not to stop being addicted to alcoholic drink. when she is unable to change him, she will leave him to prevent himself from feeling frustrated and depressed. Problem match #4 : each of them wants the other to accept them but they have the same type of needs. the relationship is fraught with terrible jealousy, severe dependency and lots of "gimme gimme" characteristics. they will end up breaking up as both of them are too needy and unable to satisfy the other's needs. Problem match #5 : having a demanding relationship. this is the most dysfunctional relationship as one party will be dependable but dull while the other be more sociable, effervescent and people's person. the more he doesn't give him a response, the more it drive him crazy and the more it is going to drive him back to his shell. ways of preventing to have a dysfunctional relationship : make a list of traits that you like your ideal partner to possesswrite down the type of relationship you wish to have and believe that you deserve this type of relationshipidentify the sort of dysfunctional relationship you keep finding yourself in with a new guy. for example, they are more emotionally distant.how and why you always end up with the same type of guys? identify aspects of your behaviour, habits and/or personality you'd like to change.work on addressing any self-esteem or emotional issues you might have. only then you can break away from this type of relationsip pattern once and for all.
{*She Loves*}
Chicken Pasta from New York New York
Dim Sum (Ha Kua and Fu Pi Juan)
Sun tan with friends
my darling
my friends
Travelling around the world
{*She Hates*}
people who backstab me
people who blame me for nothing
People who thinks that they are always right
{*Sweeties*}
gwen;
wen xu;
keshia;
sing yen;
sing wei;
shawn ang;
jiaxin;
wei ye;
siao ying;
Jee Cheng;
Adelynn;
Kong Chian;
kai ying;
liang wei;
Shi Qi;
fabian;
Irene;
lay yuen;
yu yin;
Pei Ying;
Salleh;
Marie;
kaiting;
Benedict;
kristie;
desmond;
yi hui;
alex;
Brenda;
Janice;
Joanne;
Kim Guan aka Guan Guan;
Sharon;
Loh hu;
Si Yin